People Nowadays

I think everyone has noticed the upsurge in nasty people and utter disgusting behavior going on in the world. Protests, attacks on people who don’t agree with the protest, slandering certain people on Social Media, etc. And the shocking thing for me at least, is that these people don’t seem to care what they post or how ruthless it gets! We Czaja kids were brought up by strict parents who wouldn’t tolerate any of that! None of it! We always joked that if our parents found out about us engaging in anything like this, they “wouldn’t have let us live.” Not true obviously but close! Ha!

So what’s up? Hmmmm..I suspect letting kids become too liberated before they’re actually ready for it Some kids mature faster than others. But kids need to be nurtured until early adulthood…early 20s etc. Even after that parental advice is very much a keeper, so to speak. We gradually move into adulthood and parents/authority figures gradually let go.

The world is quite different now than it was when I was a teenager (now a senior citizen). We had rules to live by, standards to maintain, goals we worked towards, and manners to maintain. We were taught to respect others even if the others were not nice people and didn’t respect us. “Just stay away from them” was the parental advice. Never slander or spew hatred or try to attack them! It’s sooooo shocking now how people of any age try to do harm to those that don’t see their point of view as the ONLY view, or slander people they don’t like, all the while knowing that they are spreading actual lies (usually about people in the news etc.)

Social Media is a big reason people do a lot of this stuff because it’s online. You can create a fake profile for yourself, and poof! Be as disgusting as you want with zero accountability. And that’s the thing…NO accountability. Not being held responsible for your actions. No apologies for your slander/bald-faced lies about someone in the news…a person you don’t even know!

Many times I think it’s our adversaries in the world who hack into Social Media and create lies about everything in the USA and the world in order to feed people (brainwash) with their ideology, which makes it easier to move in and take control and basically ruin a state or country, etc. That’s how failed countries happen. People are brainwashed by ideologies that sound good by people who are professional snake-oil salesmen. My relatives came from communist Poland. I know a few thousand things about communism. The number 1 thing is that you DON’T want that in your lives!

But what a way to “sell your goods” so to speak. As a professional musician I’m used to selling my goods by informing people how they can learn music, play piano, sing, etc. I ramp up the rewards of becoming a musician even if it’s only as an amateur. I don’t threaten them, slander them or otherwise try to sell them “swampland in Florida.” BIG difference!

It’s amazing how people try ulterior methods of winning people over. No matter what you’re trying to do you still have to let people make the decision for themselves. Lies, slander, physical attacks, the list is long as to the lengths people will go to in order to win the fight. I swear, many of these types have lost their minds and should be considering mental help. And don’t get me started on those who lose their souls to protest certain subjects and act like nincompoops for a paycheck!

Now in current times we have AI (artificial intelligence). Swell. Now we don’t even know if who or what we’re engaging with is even real! Ugh!!!! I have started to see what I think is AI vs reality but you really do have to observe for a while to make that assessment. Something else we all needed in our lives…trying to determine if what we’re engaged with is real or made up. Seriously?! And now people who have no good intentions can promote AI generated lies, propaganda, threats against others and run off scot-free because it’s fake not real. Interesting that we all need IDs to get lots of things now including aspirin! One would think this type of identification would cut down drastically on these slimy types of behavior. But apparently it doesn’t. Well beyond our control.

So in conclusion, modern day life has an added “thing” we all probably never expected. How do we handle this? For one, pray that normal people can see through this junk and move forward in a moral and appropriate manner. That is a big one in fixing slander and lies and brainwashing techniques. Don’t engage in this crap yourselves. Walk away. We all know what is right and what is wrong. Really!

Again, today’s world has become a bit shocking in this department of how people or entities will stop at nothing to ruin other people or establishments, or countries. We can’t stop it ourselves but we can bring awareness to it’s awful presence and try to derail this crap as much as we can. We can band together to make sure this junk doesn’t take over and brainwash our younger generations. We can stand strong. That’s who we are. We’re Damn Yankees! We know how to keep our sanity and our freedoms. We did that 250 years ago! You betcha!!!!

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Easter

Pep-talk here. The pinnacle of Spring is Easter. We all celebrate it. And for us who are involved in Church it brings us the highlight of the new season of Spring! It’s an awakening. It’s hope moving forward. It’s a breath of fresh air. And it’s just beautiful! Flowers, beautiful Church services and music, great food, much better weather to get out and appreciate our planet Earth. Lots of reasons to love Easter.

For me it’s a spiritual boost into more love, happiness, hope, and relaxation from Winter struggles. Days are longer, weather is warmer and more sparkling. Being one with nature is so inspirational. What is better than a season which awakens our sleepy insides during dark Winter days and the hope of new life…Easter, the Resurrection. The Resurrection of Christ has a main message. It’s not that we will get out of the physical grave and walk around 3 days after our funeral. It’s the message of hope that renews our spirit so when we do “resurrect” after we die, it will be into the glorious spiritual life promised to us by God. A reward for our Earthly struggles.

For anyone like myself who has had a couple of major surgeries in life, it opens up a new personal challenge to keep going, whatever it takes. Don’t be satisfied with where you are especially if having a few blips in the recovery process, which takes quite a while after a major surgery. Keep pushing forward. Don’t give in to moods, whining, etc. But if you do, then get over it quickly and get back on course. God gave you that strength/spirit. And also use this boost of new spirit to examine your own personal goals. What do you really want? Hope for? Is it nagging at you? Will it better fulfill your God-given talents? Take some time perhaps in nature to meditate upon this important part of your life…well, actually your entire life!

Beautiful weather, nature and the Easter spirit is prime time for dwelling on this part of you. Don’t back down. Keep going forward. Try to perhaps adopt a fresh approach to what you are trying to achieve. For myself, I’ve added a few new physical therapy exercises to help push my physical body even more. Never give up on yourself or give in to defeat. Don’t limit yourself either. Try to do as much as you reasonably can!

So speaking of a pep-talk, have I convinced you to use this Easter boost to further your spirit, your hope and your life? We get a lot of chances like this in our lives. The New Year, the Easter boost, Christmas…don’t waste these boosts of personal and spiritual energy. God gives us these moments to help us keep going in this life. Because this life is tough. For everyone.

You got this Ev! How about you? And…that’s also why God gave us pie. For these moments as well. Love to all!

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Spring – Finally

Good grief! What a winter we’ve had in New England…and frankly everywhere in the United States! Uhhhh…but we made it. No snow anywhere right now at the beginning of Spring. All 24 inches are gone. Melted. Irrigating the Earth.

This is the first seriously awful weather since my infamous back/spinal surgery on Labor Day of 2023. And I made it! I did fall once during the last snowstorm…cleaning off my car. Slid on the ice and was laying on the parking lot before I knew it! Ha! I hope I looked graceful on our closed circuit cameras. Haha!

And this past winter was just exhausting! I was talking to a fellow church member about this who’s about half my age. He said the young people are as exhausted as us seniors. Everybody is just tired!

But it is now Spring! Yay! And slowly the inner feeling of bliss is emerging. Energy is coming back! I’m actually looking to the future for whatever it is I want to keep doing. What helps, of course, is that I don’t have to have my regular tests and doctor visits for 6 months now. So everything is looking up! Yay again!

I’m beginning to clean my condo. I’m changing my winter flowers (silk) for the summer bunch. I feel like I want to take on even more activities than I already have. What’s happening to me? Spring is happening! It’s actually a great name for the season after Winter. You Spring forward, you have a Spring in your step…it’s a word that invites activity and action. I want to make more music and play and sing!

One thing I seriously want to get back in sync is me. Surgery and tests and doctor visits, plus other aches and pains due to healing of all the parts involved has been a frustrating process. I’m fine but there was a sort of disconnect in the “flow” of being a human. My walking has relaxed very much considering it was stiff-ish after surgery and most of the past 2 1/2 years. My surgery area is a bit stiff but it’s a non-factor now even though a measure of stiffness will always be there. I’m emerging as me but with a couple of different accouterments so-to-speak. And that’s just fine. They’re not holding me back at all.

And with Spring comes Easter. It’s a glorious entrance into beautiful weather and a fresh approach to life in general. It’s literally a breath of fresh air. Exuberant! Exciting!

So I’m looking forward to moving ahead into beautiful weather and all it brings, and all I am excited to accomplish! What about you? How are you emerging from the oppressive winter into a beautiful Spring? And yes, it does involve pie. My plans and solutions to problems always involve a nice slice of your favorite pie. Cheers to a beautiful and abundant Spring!

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Lessons Weather Teaches Us

Ugh! It’s the coldest out here in the Boston area that I can remember since I moved here 27 years ago. Plus tons of snow. We had a ginormous snow year in 2015 but not the cold temperatures we’ve been having now. This year 2026 is both! Uhhhh…

This is the worst winter since my emergency back surgery 2 years ago. Welp! My body sure had to get used to extreme cold and a ton of snow to clean off the car, etc. But you know, it did! I hurt for about a week but it settled down. Who knew? The body does its own thing and adjusts and moves on.

I also sat in my parking lot and watched the plows clean up. Smaller front-loaders that squirreled around to clean up spaces and park the snow in clean piles…or walls I should say. Ha! And neighbors out there all doing our thing…cleaning snow off our cars. And of course, you have to pause and socialize. Haha!

Then when it gets warmer, we’ll get the rain equivalent of the snow. Big rain storms, trying to dress appropriately just like when it snows. Substituting umbrellas for snow shovels. Driving will be different but pretty much the same…driving through water instead of on top of frozen water and trying to not skid.

And then…summer. Hot. I hate heat. But we make do with that too. And we come up with our antidotes to heat…how each of us handle it. If you love it, you love it. Period! If you don’t, you figure a way to enjoy the nice summer days without melting. Always a challenge.

See what I’m aiming at here? Give us a weather situation and we handle it, don’t we. Weather is bigger than us. We can’t tell it what to do or bargain with it or whatever else you can think of. Instead, we throw interesting words at it, usually as we’re making our way through it and surviving it. Everybody has their routine. I use a small shovel to shovel snow. I can’t lift the big ones with a lot of snow on them. So it takes me longer to clean up snow around my car. Some big, strong guy can take that big shovel and clean up a spot in ummmm…8 minutes. We all have our own way of dealing with the same thing.

But the point is, we all HAVE a way. We all deal with the situation called “weather.” And we still move on. We have things to do. We gotta get going. What does that teach us about ourselves, and life in general? We don’t let weather stand in the way of our lives unless, of course, it’s drastic. But most weather we encounter is able to be handled. We push ourselves through this stuff and move on.

How do we treat other areas of our lives? Do we treat them like we treat weather situations? We certainly have resolve to get that car out of a snowbank or get that a/c going in the car on a hot day. Not much usually holds us back. Again, we’ve got things to do.

So the question remains, how can we apply this type of resolve to other areas of our lives? Moving forward with our ambitions? Making a u-turn and going in a different direction in life if our current direction stinks! How confident are we approaching life like we approach digging that car out of a snowbank? And to go further, how many times have we shelved that resolve because we “chickened out” thinking perhaps we weren’t good enough or…what???

I’ve started thinking like that as I get older. What are you waiting for Ev? Do it! At least try it! So what can you see in your life that you might address as earnestly as digging that car out? That “never doubted yourself” attitude?

Think about it. Use weather as an example. Seriously. And as I always say, eat pie while you’re engaging in these life changing moments. Never change the pie routine though. Ha!

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Taking Care of Stuff

I’m home on MLK, Jr. holiday. It snowed 6 inches. Not bad. I went out to clean off my car as usual. Have no idea where our plows are. Usually they’re on-the-spot! O well.

So as I’m cleaning slowly and trying to shovel my parking spot slowly…please understand I’m a senior citizen and had back/spinal surgery 2 years ago…but I do get it done more slowly than others and with a smaller shovel. A nice young man I’ve met before from my building came across the parking lot and asked what I was trying to do. I told him just shovel out my spot so it’s basically clean to park in. Well…he’s tall and had a big shovel and did it for me in about…ummmm…10 minutes. It would take me a total of about an hour if not more. What a nice guy! I over-thanked him of course.

There were 4 of us cleaning our cars at that time. Now I know it’s a holiday but the same thing happened on NYs Day. Only 3 inches but I cleaned off my car and the plows were there…so one of them plowed out my spot. I was done before 90% of the other residents came out to take care of their cars. Hah!

When you are an adult, you have to take responsibility for adult stuff. And stuff happens in Winter, Spring, Summer and Fall. Winter stuff is a bit more crappy because it’s cold, and snow is irritating and slippery. But nonetheless, adults have to take care of stuff. At least in communal housing there is a plowing company hired to take care of the whole place in winter whilst you basically just take care of your own car and get it out of their way. But what about individual home ownership? You bought it, you own it, you take care of it, which means…you clean winter snow and ice, spring and summer mowing the lawn, fall leaves, etc. You get it!

That being said, why does it seem most of the residents in communal housing don ‘t come out and take responsibility for their small area of ownership in the parking lot? Our current plowing company has the smaller plows like front-loaders, which can zero in on an individual parking spot without disturbing the surrounding cars. Cool! But in general, take care of your own stuff, especially when others are involved…parking next to each other etc. Show that you care about people in general, your own things, and are a responsible adult. Plus taking care of my stuff makes me feel good. I cleaned up, I cared, I did my due-diligence, etc.

Of course when you are single and have to do everything in order for things to get done, and a professional musician which is what I call a personal achievement career, you also have that mindset that you need to get everything done yourself because, quite frankly, in those types of careers you absolutely do have to do it yourself. No questions asked!

So, this is my sermon today. Be an adult and take care of your stuff. You will absolutely feel very happy you did. Maybe exhausted but still very happy.

And of course, you know what I always recommend as your reward…pie. Yes, have some pie. You’ve earned it! Ha!

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New Year…New Us!

Whelp…2026. I took down Christmas today. Pardon me whilst I cry uncontrollably. Sniff! But, it is interesting isn’t it? We look forward to the Christmas and NYs holidays, decorate up a storm, wallow in it, don’t want it to end…then the new year hits and all of that is past history. Huh! First you don’t want to take down the decorations but then you can’t wait to take them down.

I think what I’ve just described is moving on. We psychologically know when to move on. And we want to move on and get going again. We look forward to a new year with hopefully better moments in our lives, especially if we’ve experienced a lot of heartache or crappy circumstances like financial stuff or job stuff or just difficult stuff. And that’s a great thing we humans have in our inner being. The resolve to move on and make it better! Think about that. We want to fix things. We want to fix ourselves, maybe lose a few lbs, new haircut etc. We want to fix a few things around our living abode, maybe start a new project (perhaps a blog? ha!), and just incorporate something new and promising in our lives. Humans are built like that!

I hope for and aim for 2026 to be less heartbreaking and happier. With my brother dying in March of 2025, my famous back surgeon being killed in a private plane crash in April, my car being totaled in May, I’m emotionally exhausted. The only new surprise I would take now is if some millionaire comes into my life and asks me to marry him!

I plan to keep the music going of course, blog more for your enjoyment, and my paid subscription blog for professional musicians (or any career) who need some advice or just something to ponder in their professional lives moving forward. I also enjoy helping my church out 1-2 days a week. And other activities that come up that are creative etc. And of course, being in touch with my wonderful family and enjoying my friends as well.

I also want to find some new and healthy recipes to add to my already nice stash but something newer and more adventurous. I love exploring new healthy food ideas especially stuff like salads, etc. More water! Boy do I need to keep that going! And more calming exercises. I tend to get anxious pretty much for no reason from what I can figure. So I need to keep my deep breathing exercises going. Good thing I’m an opera singer. That’s what we do…deep breathing. Plus what would a new year be without keeping up our beauty regiments? Still selling Avon beauty products and giving makeup advice. Can’t quit that!

So I feel confident I’ve got a decent start in the new year. Never expect too much. You know what happens with that. Ha! But what do you want for the new year? Hopefully you are planning some new and positive things for your own lives. Do tell!

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