Realistic Makeup

I thought I would write about makeup and actually how you can “make or break” your own look.

First of all, makeup is NOT a mask to hide behind. Proper skincare and makeup help enhance your already wonderful features. It’s like putting frosting on a cake you just baked. So a little education is very helpful in using makeup to your advantage.

There are “looks” that you can use for whatever you want to accomplish. The most common is the “natural everyday look.” What’s that? It’s using makeup in neutral colors etc. to enhance your own features. Going to work, going out for the day, etc. Just enough to look and feel “finished.” Light foundation, basic neutral eyeshadow, basic eyeliner close to the lash line, basic eyebrow application, coat of mascara, some blush and a light/neutral lipstick. Just enough.

There is also an evening look which means you can glam it up more. Still always use a light-handed as opposed to heavy-handed foundation. But you can glam up the eyeshadow more, do a bit heavier eyeliner or do a “cat eye” which is a very cool look when done properly (hint – look at a close up picture of a cat’s face). Keep the eyebrows reasonable but a bit darker if you like, a bit more blush, a couple of coats of mascara and a deeper lipstick that suits your coloring. You can also try your skill at false eyelashes. Be sure to practice a few times. They’re a bit tricky. And they can look a bit or a lot overdone! So practice with this one.

Then there is the wedding makeup. Most of you will not do your own. But if you hire someone make sure the person is a trained makeup artist. Going to the department store makeup counter is not the best idea. Most of the employees are not trained in true makeup artistry. And for your wedding, you need a practice session so you know exactly what makeup look you want and how it will look on you. Take pictures. That way you and the makeup artist are “on the same page.” NO wedding day surprises.

Things to look out for: overdone eyebrows – will make you look surprised or angry or just weird; too much cat eye – will make the little uptick in the outer corner of your eye look like a handle on a pot or pan; eyeshadow in some of the newer colors such as pink, wine, orange etc. – can make you actually look sick or like you didn’t get enough sleep the night before; blush on the cheekbones all the way up to the eyes or way too close to the nose – will make you look flushed or like you’ve had too much wine etc.; false eyelashes that are way too heavy – will make you look like you have brooms for eyelashes or something else weird. Not a glamorous look at all! And definitely make sure your foundation is a perfect match for your face color. It needs to blend into the jaw line. Nothing worse than foundation looking like some weird mask on your face.

When makeup is applied appropriately you look great! If not, then you tend to hate it and hate using it largely because you can’t get the look you want. Getting some basic education on doing makeup is a great idea, especially finding the right makeup (colors) for your skin color and eyes, etc. You CAN do this and feel good about yourself. It doesn’t have to be “makeup artist perfect” but it can look good and make you feel good (and very attractive).

So. There you are. Some makeup advice you can use. And, always do skincare night and day. This will keep your skin stay moisturized and help make your makeup look good. Hydrate too…water, you know.

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I’m Back!

Where have I been for 2 months? Welll…

Since my last post, I sprained my right upper leg muscle (groin) doing something stupid. That has taken almost 3 months to settle down. I still have to be careful.

Then March 16, my big brother Casey died. I was devastated as we all were…our sister, his 3 wonderful kids. He was the nicest guy. One of my favorite men on the planet. He would get along with anybody. And if a person turned out to be a jerk, he would mutter a couple of things and walk away. Seriously. He didn’t bother with someone who wasn’t going to be genuine…as a friend or acquaintance.

We used to text a lot. We’re from Chicago. He was one of the Chicago Cubs’ biggest fans. And Da Bears. The Bears have had a tough few years. Since I’m now in the Boston area we don’t get the Bears games that much. So I would text during games and ask how they did. He would usually say they lost. My typical response was “Virginia needs to sell.” Virginia McCaskey was the long time owner. She recently died at the age of 101 (or 102?). She was George Halas’ daughter. Halas was one of the original founders of the NFL

My brother wasn’t really sick. The past 3 years he fought a lesion in his inner ear for which he had a laser treatment. The treatment worked but he seemed to go downhill after that. Not sure why. But he didn’t linger for months. Nevertheless, he’s gone. His 3 children did a beautiful job arranging his funeral. And since he was a Viet Nam War veteran, there was a flag and short military ceremony at his funeral. So all in all a beautiful send-off. And since my sister-in-law died 14 years ago, they added a small picture of her in the casket. She was in her wedding dress. I just know they are sooooo happy together now in the afterlife. We’ll survive here with the wonderful memories.

And of course a month later we celebrated Easter. Pascha as we call it in the Orthodox Church. It was big and glorious and of course, exhausting. It always is. And I made such a good Easter dinner complete with some traditional Polish dishes. And being Polish, we bless our Easter baskets as well. Easter eggs, kielbasa, horseradish for the kielbasa…haha! But it’s special. Holidays have some traditions that make them so special. And we all look forward to that.

Now we wind down. Time to look forward to the warm spring and summer months. Relax, sort of. Ha! Whoever relaxes anymore! And get used to life without certain people. Regroup.

I’m so much better after my emergency back surgery 18 months ago. But still putting on the final touches of getting stronger and pursuing my life again. So much change in the past 5 years. And illness amongst people I know…both family and friends. A couple of deaths. And now the Pope has died as well. It seems 2025 is one of those years that really changes our lives. It certainly didn’t start out spectacularly. Hopefully that will wind down and we’ll start a period of more calm and less personal anxiety.

You know, they always talk about being a Senior Citizen, which I am, as a time when you can relax, travel, enjoy life after years of working etc. I am wondering when that actually starts. Ha! So far it’s been pandemic, losing a music studio, best music pal dying, major back surgery, long time superb voice teacher dying, big brother dying, friend at Church dying…you get the gist. When does the party begin? Or does it ever?

Lots to think about in life. So how is 2025 going for you so far? How are you handling it? I think that’s really the point. How do we handle the curves and bombs thrown at us in life. They’re supposed to help mold us into who we are.

I guess they do! How about you?

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Presidents Day

I love Presidents Day. George Washington and I share the same birth day…not year. Ha!!! But I love Washington and Lincoln. Great men. Great presidents.

Washington had vision for this country. We need to live free and run our own lives. No big government in our faces. Lincoln needed to keep the country together. One big piece was slavery. The South engaged in it but the North abhorred it. The country wanted to split. He kept us together.

President Reagan said that “Freedom is a fragile thing and is only one generation away from extinction. We didn’t pass it to our children in the bloodstream. It must be fought for, protected, and handed on for them to do the same, or one day we will spend our sunset years telling our children and our children’s children what it was once like in the United States where men were free.”

No one knows that better than those brave souls who came from England, settled here as a British colony, then decided they wanted no more Kings telling them what to do and when to do it. They wanted to live as free people on their own terms, but with law and order and respect for every person who came to this new country.

And we as Americans need to take the time and digest this. There are so many unsavory individuals/countries who would destroy us and our different approach to life. There’s no country like the USA. We are that unique. But for those who don’t understand our beginnings and our resolve, they think they can come here, use our freedoms and work them “their way” in order to ruin us. Wrong!

This is why it’s mandatory to teach future generations who we are and why it’s so important to protect our freedoms. It’s life to us! It’s life to anyone who emigrates to this country. And most importantly, it works. We have the chance to live life our way. It’s work and it doesn’t always work how we want it to but…we have the freedom to change course, tweak it, and reconfigure our path until we get to where we want to be. That is true freedom.

So. Enjoy praising the presidents you like the best. And honor those that gave a lot to make this country great especially from the very beginning.

Happy Presidents Day!!!! Happy freedoms everyone!

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Emotions

Yes, emotions. I got angry at a situation in my condo building the other day. It involved constuction guys renovating a condo soon to be up for sale, and going in and out whilst leaving our security door propped open.

First of all, that door needs to be closed all the time. It is locked. It is a security door…duh. Secondly, it is winter. It’s cold outside…duh. These workmen don’t really care about the building HOA rules. They just do their job. And this group doesn’t speak English. So if they need to get in and out of the building they prop the door open and leave it. Period. In the meantime, we in the building are freezing. Plus we do heat our hallways. But if you try to talk to them, they don’t understand you. Swell.

So, coming in that day when they were upstairs, I saw the bucket of rock salt propping open the door. I got so angry (for the umpteenth time) that I attempted to pull the thing in and close the door. It is dead weight and I can’t lift that bucket. So I dragged it. Then I dragged it over the step into the building and immediately twisted my leg basically spraining the upper thigh/hip connection. A weight-bearing section of your body. So. My anger got me a sore leg for several days. I feel like an idiot. I could have just left the door partially closed and had the guys finish the job since they were coming down the stairs.

So where did my angry, belligerent, stubbornly independent attitude get me? A couple of days using my cane and trying to not put a lot of weight on my leg. As I write this the leg is very much better due to my heroic action to clear this up (Advil, heating pad, etc.).

Need I say more on this particular subject? Did everyone reading this get the point? Good.

Seriously. I’ve always been the “oh I’ll do it myself” stubborn person in life…since I was about 5. Yes it works most of the time because it has to but sometimes, well…you fill in the blank.

And then there’s the issue of who is around to help you? This makes me feel like the perpetrators are always getting the upper hand. Something else that makes me even more angry. Ugh.

I don’t know where I’m going with this. Hmmmm… But maybe I’m already there. If you got the point of this story then this blog accomplished it’s goal. But what do you think? What have you encountered if you’ve ever let an emotion make you do something stupid? Do tell! After all, I don’t want to be in this club alone. Ha!

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Why Music

Anyone who goes into music, or any creative art for that matter, where you are your own business…personal achievement careers as I call them, knows pretty much before they finish their training that their chosen profession will not pay the mortgage. Some perhaps but many…no. So why music or your chosen profession?

Well, I’ve always said we all have been given a gift. It’s instilled in us from birth. We absolutely must use this gift…follow our heart. If we don’t, I honestly believe we are baseline unhappy in this life. We choose jobs that are ok but we would really love to so something else…follow our heart. I did. I was a bit naive too but it did hit home at some point. I was a bit saddened but I still built a “business” for myself and became a seasoned expert at my art. I also learned a ton of office and computer skills whilst being a musician. In fact, those skills come in very handy when promoting yourself and networking with other musicians etc. At least I didn’t have to do waitressing like a lot of people do who don’t have other skills. A carillonneur I knew, who was the chief carillonneur of his well-known Church, was a computer software engineer. Hahahahaha! Ahhhh yes…we do what we have to do to stay afloat and still perform our heart’s desire,

Perhaps the title of this blog should be “why follow our dreams?” There are many dreams out there that people possess. And yes, I know it’s not always possible to do it for at least a partial living. My Dad (read about him in one of my previous blogs), had to work as a private delivery man and did part-time plastering to support our family, and after hours played clarinet like a seasoned pro! He always wanted to be a clarinet soloist. Well. He still learned to play it expertly and taught me to read music at age 4. So yes, there are real reasons seasoned musicians have to do other jobs. People do need to support families and pay for a house and, you know, eat etc.

As I grow older I do more and more appreciate the effort I put into becoming a professional musician even though I am not world-famous. I am happy with my decision. And yes, I’m still a “poor musician” but I am a happy one. And I have other talents I’ve entertained as well. Being creative I have 3 certificates in Makeup Artistry, I am a pretty much skilled artist, and I am now working on freelance digital marketing to help others get ahead and still help my own talents get ahead.

So this music thing I do led me to take on other “like” projects. I am proud of myself and that I have abilities that my music fortitude led me to apply to these other areas. They all feed each other.

So again, why music? Well, why not your talents as well? If you haven’t explored your talents in a serious way, now is the time. I’m telling you this is definitely the time. Don’t wait any longer. And you will also see where else in life it leads you.

Why Music? That’s me. That’s why!

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Why We Hurt Others

I was talking with a friend today. She’s in the middle of a divorce that’s been dragging on for months. She and he are in different states.

The gyst of the conversation was about the hatefulness coming from his side. I know them both. Haven’t seen him in several years. But when I knew them they were both very in love and such nice, caring people. She still is. But I cannot fathom the change in him. What in the world happened?

And why do we end up hurting people we loved so much? What makes us want to hurt people? I personally don’t want to hurt people even if they are the bane of my existence. I just want them to go away so my life is free of the drama or whatever is happening with this person.

People suffer through these long and arduous ordeals just to make their lives happier and more peaceful. And most people are not bad people. It’s mind-boggling as to why these situations can turn so ugly. What changes in us to make us so lethal? Is hate the exact opposite of love? So if you’re so much in love, should something happen, then the hateful vitriol surfaces very often to the utter surprise of everyone you know?

I feel awful for my friend. Situations like these that go on for months almost destroy us. It’s so sad to see someone you’ve known for a number of years, as a really good person, go through this mess that the person doesn’t deserve in the first place.

As a professional musician I have seen similar situations in the artistic world. Many people don’t celebrate someone else’s talent. They hate them for being what they consider better than them, whether or not it’s true.

Human nature. There are many lessons involved in being human. I find myself digging deep to help encourage my friend to not get down to rock-bottom. It’s very easy to slide and keep going. She’s strong though. We have to be. Very often life sucks. We have our gut-awful moments and the people we are close to help us survive, and then we do the same when one of them is in a similar situation.

Having faith is of the essence as well. I have lived alone my entire adult life. My family and friends are great but I’m still on the lookout for my one true love…I’ve written about that many times. Learn to survive amidst all odds very often, and you become strong. You don’t think you’re strong but you are. It’s exhausting but you get there. And having faith (as in your Church) helps more than you think. I’ve always credited my survivor attitude to my faith. It gives you hope. All is not lost no matter what. There’s always hope and a new beginning. Moving forward through the mess into a clearer sense of order and yes, happiness.

But as for why people hurt people, I sincerely have no answers. None. We just do. It’s awful to watch. More awful even than going through it yourself. But we press on.

Maybe someone else has an answer to this?

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How Strong Are You

Yup! That’s the question for today. How strong are you? Think back throughout your life. I’ll start. I know…if you get bored eat some cake. Ha!

I had a hysterectomy at age 38. Three years later at age 41 I had brain/head surgery. I am otherwise healthy. I moved from Chicago to Boston when I was 48.

I am a professional musician so I’ve been making music in both places. I have both Bachelor’s and Master’s Degrees in Music Performance and Teaching. Since music doesn’t pay the mortgage I’ve worked up skills in office management. I’ve also become a Makeup Artist. And I am currently taking a Free-Lance Marketing Course.

Besides being an opera singer, I am a pianist and modest organist. I learned that along the way too. I do a lot of things not for the faint of heart. I’ve also been teaching private music for 38 years. And I am determined to finish what I start.

I retired from office work etc. in 2020 to focus only on music. Because of the Covid issues we lost our music studio. Along the way my best friend of 39 years/music bud died…2022. Life changed big time.

A year later in 2023 I had emergency back/spinal surgery. I am almost 100% recovered…still some things like an achy back here and there etc. But moving forward.

Now in present times the economy stinks so bad I had to go back to running a Church office part time for a bit…don’t know how long. My Church so I’m ok with it.

And let’s not forget the numerous failed romances I’ve endured over the years. The last one, 18 years ago, we were together for 3 years…thought we would marry…he left. I’ve all but given up but something…maybe the Spirit…won’t let me. So I keep open to this one thing I so dearly want. So I’ve been by myself for my entire adult life…I DO have a great family and bunch of friends but my intimate life has been single.

Now. I’m sure many of you have had worse times than this. Maybe many have not. But gosh darn we’ve all got some real stuff in our lives. And what happened to us? We’re still here aren’t we? Yes, we survive. We reinvent ourselves and keep going. You have to. What other choice is there? Crawling under a rock is NOT a choice folks. Oy vey!

So here I sit. I have survived a few things in my life. Ha! And how is your list going? Don’t be afraid to make one. Don’t be afraid to look back into your life over the years. It’s what builds our character. We have a new chapter in our lives every few years. Embrace that. I’ve had a few. Usually by surprise. Ha!

Life is a ride! Now it’s 2025. It’s another year and another start. Even if you have no plans to completely shift your life around try to feel a new-ness in what you are doing. And do something unique for yourself to sort of renew yourself. Something different. You can find something if you search hard enough I’m sure. I always seem to. Very often by surprise like I said.

So Happy New Year again! We’re all survivors and looking for more stuff to survive. I’m looking for a happier bunch of stuff to survive as opposed to back surgery and radiation. Ha! I’ll bet right now that my new stuff will be happier!

Here’s to us survivors…and remember…eat cake (with ice cream or whipped cream). Ha!

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Happy New Year 2025!

Again, back in the saddle from a month off…trying to keep life in order and stay healthy as well. So…Happy New Year everyone!

I hope everyone had a good Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year’s. All the end-of-year holidays. I did. Quiet but introspective and restful. Good food. Family, friends. Good stuff all around. Thoughtful. Getting well and really doing well after spinal surgery in September of 2023. Also in a better mindset.

Lots to think about as we enter a new year. I “journal” every year. Summarize the previous year and declare intentions for the new year. Health is on top of course. Being productive, happy, caring, loving. And praying for continued abundance, family, friends, my Church, and my lifelong loving partner…still waiting and praying. But most important, self-love and happiness. We’re nothing if we cannot love and celebrate ourselves. That’s what moves us forward. Motivates us.

Also this new month of January brings another round of tests since my surgery, and another visit with my two wonderful doctors at Brighams. Another year of that and I’m done. Praying nothing more is found but I do feel positive and healthy so I’m quite hopeful everything is fine.

And of course, what is in my life forever is my music and love of art/makeup artist. My creative self. My spirituality. That’s my stuff. We all have our stuff. It’s important that we engage fully in our stuff. That’s who we are. You know that. You have your stuff that you do whether it’s a profession or a serious hobby. You’ve got your stuff. Period! Ha!

None of us know the future. We don’t know what to expect in a new year. I guess the only thing we can do and trust fully is to move forward being exactly who we are. No imposters. Be YOU! The right things will happen to you if you are your genuine self. I plan to do just that.

So again, Happy New Year to you all. We’ve got this! Here’s to a wonderful year. And don’t forget to eat cake. Yes. There always has to be cake involved…with some ice cream too. Yay!!!!

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Music as Life

Thought I would write about music again. My life has been turned upside down once again. Just as I’m humming along my Church calls me to come and run the office, something I had done for 22 years. Issues with the former admin assistant. Music doesn’t usually pay the mortgage so one has to have other jobs especially when benefits are involved. It’s just easier. Anyway, I am now working that job 22 hours per week, making music, and trying to figure out more marketing for myself and even other small businesses if possible.

Being a musician is a life-long pursuit. It chooses you as much as you choose it. You cannot hide from it. In fact, a person cannot hide from their gift in life no matter what field they are in. If you are blessed with a special gift, you must pursue it or be kinda miserable throughout life. I’ve always felt like that.

My Church is Greek Orthodox. The music is Byzantine, which is actually where music started…in the Church. There was no western style notation, no scales, no time signatures, no key signatures. The beginnings of music were very archaic. It was a system of modes…8 modes. The notation always reminded me of short-hand…the age-old system of executive assistants/secretaries taking dictation from their bosses quickly. Neumes with little designs over them. The Chanters, the main Church singers at the time, read those neumes and improvised ornamentation according to how they interpreted the neumes and other markings. They still do it today in the Orthodox Churches. Quite the challenge. So music was more difficult to create in antiquity.

Fast forward to current times, music itself is not difficult to read. It’s a system. It’s also math-involved. It’s very common-sense. What takes time and work is the learning of the instrument you are using including voice. Learning music from different eras…the style. Learning music history. Learning to be a musical artist. Learning to put yourself into your creative art…just like a painter. It’s a lifetime of executing and learning and polishing and becoming more of an expert. You become seasoned. You become your art. Takes a lifetime but it does happen.

And there are no shortcuts. None. There are no shortcuts to becoming a seasoned expert in any field. No instant gratification. There are plenty of “wannabes” though who want to attain the level of expert without putting in the work. Music is full of that. Fortunately they do fall by the wayside soon enough. “Wannabes” can’t keep up with seasoned professionals in any field. Doesn’t take long to figure that out either.

One thing I love about being a musician is the deep-seeded appreciation for other musicians creating their own music so expertly. Listening to other instruments being played so amazingly, and the beautiful sounds of other instruments is truly a joy to behold. Captivating. And listening to world-renowned artists performing amazing musical feats…breathtaking. It comes from knowing the work involved in mastering your own musical craft. You know the drill and are stunned by how some very talented people on this Earth make music happen so incredibly.

Being a musician is a crazy thing. We’re all nuts. But it is something I would never trade in for a billion dollar career in something else. It’s me. For the Love of Art.

And you? What defines you? Where does your heart lie? Feel free to comment.

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Back in the Saddle

Here I am again. I didn’t blog at all in September. Hope you missed me! I have to say it got away from me for a bit. And I am making some changes to take care of me going forward.

First of all September was back/spinal surgery anniversary month. And it was also quarterly test and doctor month. Yippee! MRI, CT Scan and the 2 doctors. Good thing everyone who administers the tests and the 2 doctors themselves are very nice people and so very professional. Everything is stable and the doctors are pleased. So…wash, rinse, repeat in January 2025. For another year. They’re following me for 2 years.

Now that that’s out of the way I can continue rebuilding my personal and financial life which suffered a lot during the past 3 years. This includes packing more music students into my life and starting a small freelance marketing business to sustain regular income for the long haul. Something I can do from a hospital bed if necessary…not that I’m planning to be in the hospital ever again. And with the price of absolutely everything going sky-high one needs to have extra income especially now in retirement.

I would also like to find that one man who would love me the rest of our lives and get married. Have the life I want with my music and little business I can do on my schedule. Aka…rebuilding my life hopefully for the last time in this life. How many times do I have to do that?

I rebuilt when I had brain surgery. I rebuilt when I moved from Chicago to Boston. I’m rebuilding after this back/spinal surgery. Enough already!!!! How many of you have had to rebuild your lives multiple times?

Unfortunately big surgeries do affect your life even if you recover nicely. This recovery is longer and a bit different but it’s humming along. You also think a bit differently about your life. You become more guarded about your health. You also don’t take any BS from anyone anymore. You become very clear about what you want your life to be. You have to stand on your hind legs and get yourself well. Period! Become YOU again. No whining or long-term complaining. Even though I do sometimes. Hehe.

Well. Now that I’m back blogging I’m exhausted after writing this. Hahaha! However now it’s time to invent some new undertaking. I admit I get antsy even though I’d like to sit and relax very often. Btw…you are always welcome to comment. It would be nice to hear from visitors. Be kind of course. Ha!

And stay tuned for my next project. I’m working on that now. Cheers!

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