More Logic with Eve

Why do young people drink so much?  We all tasted it when we were young but I have to admit, liquor tasted terrible.  I remember when I was old enough to drink, I couldn’t wait to have a beer!  My father, older brother, relatives all loved beer!  Me too!  And then, I finally had one!  Yuck!  But of course, I couldn’t say anything because I had to “save face” so I pretended to like it.  O Bozhe moi!  I eventually did fnd a brand that I liked and stuck with it whenever I ordered a beer.  So all was not lost.  But you can’t tell me that every young person out there posting pictures on Facebook with all those empty beer cans actually enjoys the stuff.  Suspect indeed!  How does one go from water, milk and soda to all-of-a-sudden a beer and like it so much they can’t stop drinking it, at least from some of the pictures I see.

Liquor is an acquired taste.  And one that takes time to acquire, which no person in their late teens to early 20s has had nearly enough time to acquire!  I know teenagers drink…college kids are probably known more for that than academic expertise.  But why?  Of what useful value is liquor?  One can argue that beer does have some healthy components and of course, red wine has the heart-friendly resveratrol, but other than that booze puts on weight, can land one in jail if caught driving under the influence, can cause people to become violent, and in general gets people into situations not to be proud of.  Plus, it really doesn’t taste all that good anyway!  I assume young people do it because of peer pressure…”that’s what you do when you attain a certain age,” not necessarily 21 either!  Yeah, there’s a reason to do it, because “everybody else does it!”  Which of course begs the question, “if everybody jumped off a cliff would you do it too?”

Over my adult years I made my way gingerly through hard liquor as well, tasting here and there and finally deciding I liked vodka and cognac the best, although not mixed together!  ha!  What I have settled into is an occasional beer, my yearly Jack Daniels plus ginger-ale-highball, and some good cabernet sauvignon wine.  But above all, my favorite is a nice glass of ice water.  Funny how water won over all the others. 

Of course, one must realize how fiercely independent I am.  I don’t do a lot of group things  of this nature because I DON’T want to look like I belong to a herd…I’m my own person.  I’m also older and have had a couple of surgeries in my life.  And I’ll tell you, there’s nothing at all that can beat doing well during surgery.  That usually cures one of any kind of addiction…except chocolate, of course!

So there we have it, the eternal question of why young people find it so important to drink up and often!  Booze is fascinating.  So is what it does to people too!  ha!  Nothing like being a slobbering fool not in control of your faculties with slurred speach, inability to walk and in general, no control over how big a fool you’re making of yourself!  I suppose this will never end as long as society has booze in it.  And we all experimented when we were young.  But, here’s the point, we all learned from our ugly experiences and vowed to “never do THAT again!”  So then, other than for the one-time experimentation of it, I once again ask “why do young people drink so much?”

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Logic with Eve

Regarding the supposed end of the Earth on Saturday, May 21…I can’t stand this!  It makes religion look foolish.  This is right up there with somebody seeing the face of Jesus on a half-eaten toasted cheese sandwich.  I’ve been Christian forever!  The Bible is the Bible.  It’s made up of stories, metaphors, parables, etc.  No one really knows what any of the authors of the Bible meant.  But we try our best to figure it out so we can live a good life and love and respect our neighbor as ourselves.  But no one can know how or when the Earth will end.  Religion/spirituality isn’t some computer program.  It’s not easy being a Christian.  People like these Rapture-ites make it look like “we’d better be good cuz’ Santa Claus is comin’ to town.”  If only life WERE that easy.  These people have such a narrow-minded vision of what God is.  It’s a tough road being a good person but we pursue it.  And the last thing any good Christian should be doing is trying to figure out when the world will end.  Figure out a good life!  The Earth will end when it’s good and ready.  And we will probably be long gone anyway.

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Voice with Eve

Among the many words that describe the crux of singing there is one word that stands out amongst the rest.  Now since you all know that I am a voice teacher you are probably thinking…breath, support, dropped jaw…the big three.  Actually, the word is PATIENCE.  Yes, the student and teacher must have patience because learning to be a singer is not the same thing as just singing.  Think about learning to play an instrument…let’s say piano.  Did you learn in two months?  No.  In fact, your hand-eye coordination was probably just beginning to kick in after two months of “beating” it.  Same thing with voice.  Even though your little vocal muscles are quite efficient and know how to produce the tone you want, we need to get coordinated.  In fact, we spend most of our voice lessons getting out of our own way so the larynx can function as it should.  We have lots of muscles and movable parts in our bodies (no surprise there).  And they’re not used to letting go so the little larynx can shine!  Everybody wants to help.  And we need help from select muscles to work with the larynx to produce the proper tone but we don’t need help from all of them.  Like we guide our hands along the keyboard, we guide a “buzz” noise through our resonating cavities in our bodies.  This is not an activity we just jump into and perfect by noon the day after our third lesson.  It takes a number of years for the body to get the point as to what muscles are needed and which need to lie low so the body can hone itself into an instrument.  Yes, as singers, we are now instruments.  And if you want to be an opera singer (like those people “hollering” at the Met in NY), it can take up to 10 years to mold the body into the type of instrument that is expected for that standard of music.  You become “it” and “it” becomes you.  Your voice is no longer this thing you sing with.  It becomes how you identify yourself.  You are now a singer!  And you are always a singer.  It doesn’t leave you.  It may get rusty if you do not pay attention to it regularly but it is still with you.  Music in general is like that.  Patience is the key.  If it is that important to you then patience will get you where you want to be as a singer and ultimately serve you well in your singing adventures.

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Philosopher Eve

It’s Philosopher-Eve again.  The question is what’s the impatience with growing up?  There are so many things available to kids now that attempt to make them grow up faster and faster.  The only thing is that even though so many adult things in this day and age are geared at kids, the kids themselves aren’t really growing up any faster.  They may think they are but they aren’t.  But what is happening is the kids are finding themselves in adult situations and failing miserably.  They’re getting messed up.  New drivers are getting great cars and speeding themselves to death or jail or suspended licenses before they’re actually 21 (supposed adulthood).  How many college kids used credit cards “out-of-control” and racked up debt and ruined their credit before age 21?  And drinking, Good God!  Hosing booze directly into your body like you’re watering the lawn?  I know kids are supposed to be learning how to be adults as they grow and get through the formative years but key word here is “learning.”  And my latest rant, the Ambercrombie & Fitch push-up bikini for little girls?  What exactly are they pushing up?  They’ve got nothin’!  There is an awful lot of disconnect between the reality of being a kid and growing up and what is actually happening to kids in this day and age.  Like I said, what’s the rush to grow up?  It happens, like it or not.  And when you’re 21 and older, you are responsible for yourself.  Parents are nice people but you are now over that wonderful age of 21 and you are now responsible for yourself for the rest of your life.  Can’t hide behind Mom and Dad anymore.  And doesn’t it come soon enough!

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Phlosopher Eve

Here we are again.  I’ve always wondered about the passive-aggressive people.  When you approach this type of person they usually are very friendly, in my experience, and seem to be agreeable as well.  Yet, when faced with something they might have to do for you (or anyone for that matter) that they may not necessarily agree with, they just conveniently ignore the whole matter until the other person just “goes away.”  If the other person keeps at it, that person is looked at as a troublemaker.  Interesting state of affairs.  And interesting how many people get trapped in a situation like this with a “p-a” type of person.  Who knows how many rotten incidents could have been solved or not happened at all if both parties were honest about their feelings and tried truly working together.  But it’s the mindset of the “p-a” person that is intriguing.  Haven’t figured it out yet. 

More to come!

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Voice with Eve

Singing is an odd duck.  This comes from a singer of 40 years.  Ha!  Singers are odd ducks too.  We turn ourselves into human instruments and then hope the general public likes what we have to offer.  We’re nice people in spite of the fact that some folks call us “divas.”  And yes, we make noise.  Big noise!  Ever had your apartment neighbors knock on your door or write lousy letters to you to shut up?  A rare treat indeed.  Or how about the people who have done half the training you have but pretend to be as accomplished as you…not!  And let’s not forget the group that knows everything about singing but haven’t pursued the vocation at all or don’t even sing in the shower!  I think that is the group that taught me how to smile professionally.  I always had a nice smile but there have been moments in my singing life that have definitely influenced my professional smile (and how long I can hold it).  You betcha!

But in spite of all this, we press on.  It’s in our blood.  Or as my long time voice teacher, Dr. Ronald Combs, used to say, “People have no idea what goes on at voice lessons.” 

If you are a singer, beginner or pro, and you think you’re weird, suffice to say you are.  But embrace it and know you are in good company.  After all, people who don’t sing don’t really know what kind of guts it takes to study voice, and then perform in front of people, and that’s after you were born with the talent.  And try to have a career?  O Bozhe moi!  So the next time someone calls you a “diva” wear it like a badge!

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Philosopher Eve

Time for another moment with Philosopher-Eve. Always be honest and never misrepresent yourself or the facts from the beginning. It always (yes always) catches up with you in the end. And always acknowledge someone’s hurt feelings if you are responsible for it. You may not be able to change anything but your sensitivity and respect for that person will speak volumes. That’s what counts anyway. Stay tuned for more from Philosopher-Eve.

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About Singing

Singing is me.  I’m nothing if not a singer.  I’ve listened to a lot of voices, taught a lot of voices (and still do), and heard a lot of “stuff” in voices that I love or hate.  This singing page is for the best advice I can give on voice and singing, and musings on the subject as well.  Right now we are entering a period of time when there is a lot of singing going on…spring concerts, college recitals, and church music with Easter on the horizon.  So a lot of people are practicing long hours and worrying about their voices.  And with the change in weather from the cold and dry winter to spring, with its budding flowers and trees and grass and…allergies, the old adage applies…”singers live in fear of their next cold.”  Ha!  Truer words were never spoken.

My advice for the current situation is to NOT overdo it at all.  Practice when you are healthy, don’t practice long hours at one time, and above all, when you are ready to sing (perform), another old singing adage applies…”never leave your voice in the practice room.”  Vocalize and practice your music in the days before you have to perform.  The day of the performance should be given over to not using your voice too much and vocalizing just to warm up.  Other than that, shut up!

Voices thrive on healthy activities, just like your bodies.  Lots of sleep is a must.  Foods that give you energy and digest well are also a must.  For example, red meat digests more slowly than poultry, a softer meat.  You might think about that when your next performance is upon you.  When I was giving my graduate recital some years ago, I ate Eve-friendly foods that I knew wouldn’t give me heartburn and would digest easily.  I had a dinner of chicken, potatoes and broccoli, with an apple for dessert, and I ate this about 3 hours before show time.  It served me well.

Also, drink water.  I never recommend anything else before singing.  Hot drinks tend to dry you up and cold ones are just too cold.  Avoid citrus as that dries you up as well.  I always advise to NOT submit your vocal folds to extreme temperatures when you have to sing.  Cool water, sipped regularly, serves you best.  And always drink water in your daily life as well.  Just drink water.  Forget soda, juice and too much caffeine.  Lots of water.  And NO alcohol before you sing.  Good grief!  Alcohol swells the tissues, and that means the tissues of the layrnx (vocal folds) as well.  Wait until afterwards for a glass of wine.

Treat your vocal folds with respect and they will perform for you the way you want.  It really is that simple.  More to come…stay tuned.

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Hello!

Welcome to my Singer’s Blog.  I am Evelyn Virginia Sophia Czaja, mezzo-soprano.  I am a performer, voice teacher, stage director, piano teacher, choir director, modest organist and budding clarinetist.  I am also an Avon representative and trained makeup artist, and I have been known to build furniture.  Check out my website for my full music resume: http://www.makingmusicwitheve.weebly.com.

I started this blog to post advice about singing.  I have lots to say about singing as I have been engaging in the act of being an opera singer for about 40 years, and a voice and piano teacher for 25 years.  I have also started my Philosopher-Eve series of musings about being an honest and noble person of dignity.  We lack moral conscience in society today.  Not that I am the moral police and will fix the world but I do have definite ideas about being honest and living a good life.

So look around and see what interests you especially if you are a serious singer.  Comment if you like.  Only legitimate comments are welcome, and no profanity.  This site is a work in progress so visit as often as you like and hopefully something new will arise and peak your interest.

Thanks for visiting!

Eve

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