That’s me. A Survivor. I also fix things. What do I mean by this? I have become a professional musician and a professional makeup artist in this life. Both are personal achievement jobs where you use your talents to become your own business. I guess I’ve always been like this. I have to do what I AM as opposed to depending on somebody else’s workplace, although I’ve had to do that too in order to survive. Personal achievement jobs don’t always pay the mortgage. But I’ve always said you have to make a life for yourself no matter what.

I’ve been searching/praying to meet my lifelong partner my entire life. I’ve worked music jobs, jobs for other companies, I’ve done a lot of things alone…most things. I’ve had a couple of surgeries, been scared and upset, had to figure finances myself…something I’m not necessarily good at. I’ve been almost assaulted. I’ve built furniture I needed when I didn’t have the money to buy ready made at a fancy furniture store. But you have to make a life in spite of what you desire as your end game. You have to be happy. And that’s up to you to do that for yourself. If you are searching for love or for more accomplishments it doesn’t matter what your life is like at the present. You swallow hard and achieve. You make your own life.

And be proud of what you’ve done in your life. YOU did this. That’s part of your persona and your attractiveness to others, no matter if it’s a romantic relationship, work or just friends. Never put your own persona on hold or ignore it completely. You have to be who you are in this life.

This includes making your home a nice, comfy, happy place with your touch. Make a home for yourself. Live as a real person. Do inner work on your psyche. Work on problems that bother you and try to figure out how to fix them or learn to walk away from stuff that does you no good. Don’t put you on hold. Live your life. Chances are 100% that what you ultimately desire will make its appearance soon. Give it a home to come into.

So the moral of my tale here is that you have to make a life for yourself no matter what. I did and continue to do. And you’ll be glad you did. And you’ll feel better and shucks…be happier!

And that is what a Survivor is. Someone who fixes their lives and well, survives.